Learning Outdoors - A School in the Woods
with Mary Mclachlan
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“I’m just a bit of a maverick, I see things slightly differently and always gone a bit left field and I’ve always questioned and wondered whether it could be done differently or better."
Welcome to the Spring/Summer series of the Back To The Garden Podcast. Todays guest, Mary Mclachlan, founded the Wood School in Manchester in 2010. It’s an incredible school set in a 1.7 acre woodland. In this episode we’re also joined by our regular podcast guest, Anne Statham (our very own child development specialist). This is a very in-depth conversation so it is split into two parts.
What we cover in both episodes:
Developing empathy in practitioners
The art of active listening
Parent Effectiveness Training
How the Wood School began
The importance of developing a relationship with nature at a young age.
Things that have inspired Mary
Her advice to someone starting a school outdoors
The amazing qualities of Willow
Challenges Mary has faced and overcome
A story of hope, the power of a community and how the Wood School has helped a child going through traumatic experience
Ideas for families for outdoor activities this Spring
Wild garlic, growing plants and spoon whittling!
We’re thrilled to have Mary as a guest on the show and welcome back Anne.
“Concepts around awe and wonder, that’s why it’s set in a wood. The wood is constantly changing. It surprises you each time you go. I was in this week, I’ve had the wood for over 15 years, and this week I saw a new bird.”
In Part 1 we talk about:
00:48 Mary’s relationship with her children
1:57 Philosophies, places and schools around the world that inspired Mary. Here we touch on the educational system and mental health. What the pandemic has brought to light around education.
10:54 Advice to somebody out there wanting to create an outdoor setting.
13:52 Mary and Back To The Garden and the Willow weaving.
19:29 Tips for parents to do this Spring at home
21:45 Personal rituals Mary likes to do in the Spring
22:33 Spoon whittling
24:21 One particular story about a child where Mary’s really seen a difference through their time at the Wood School.
27:08 Challenge Mary has faced and overcome.
34:10 Rapid fire questions
"In order for us to empathise we need to have a lot of empathy for ourselves. Another key component is to have a lot of self-empathy. We often had long check-ins in the morning. Taking care of each other and really listening to each other.’"
In Part 2 we talk about:
1:11 Mary’s early years - a pivotal moment for her during her childhood and how the outdoors played a huge part of her childhood.
4:53 Education - how Mary went from studying medicine and law to creating a childcare centre.
12:11 How being a mum fed into the inspiration for the Wood School and the book that changed her approach. Learning about active listening, non-violent communication and parent effectiveness training.
16:05 An example from this week where Mary was able to use these learnings and the outcome. Anne shares about the desire to ‘fix things’ and how starting with the pause and recognising the feeling behind it helps.
22:50 Wood School - the seed of the idea, how it all began.
27:52 How Mary and Mae work together as co-founders and how did the rest of the team take form.
32:01 Core Values of The Wood School.
37:43 How important developing the relationship children have with nature is.
43:25 Why it’s so important to develop empathy in practitioners. Here we also discuss Wellbeing in adults within school systems.
54:24 Mary shares her courses.
“The joy of Willow is the instant result. It’s also really giving. The kids get to see it grow, Willow grows really quickly, it grows quicker than they grow. It also provides a great resource endlessly. You will now be cutting willow forever and the more you cut the more you can build. And we talked about creating these little spaces that only the kids could fit in so that they could have that sense of a space for themselves.’”
“When a child is in trauma it really does take a whole community, everybody needs to pitch in.”
Episode Resource Links:
Adele Faber - ‘How to Talk So Kids Will Listen and Listen so Kids Will Talk’ - Link
Carl Rogers - The Humanist Psychologist -
Marshall B. Rosenberg - Non-violent communication (NVC)
Thomas Gordon - Parent Effectiveness Training - Link to book
Maslow’s Hierarchy Of Needs
Adverse Childhood Experiences
The New School in Croydon LINK
Dr Ross Greene - The Explosive Child LINK
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Recorded via Zoom and edited at LBS, Stockport. https://lbs.co.uk/
Producer: Adders Jeffry
Original Music written by Sadie Pickering, performed by Sadie Pickering, Dan J Logan and Jay Ansill
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